Sunday, February 12, 2012

Our Love Story

I know I've been MIA lately, but I promise really fun posts and things are happening in this household, starting with us getting the keys to our new house (DECORATING POSTS!!) this coming Friday!  Yay!

Anyway, before that happens, a little special (Hallmark) holiday is Tuesday and I wanted to opt in on the fun everyone's having over at FromMrstoMama.

So here goes the Love Story of Blake & Ashley. :)

Taken Ladies

1. How long have you and your significant other been together?
Together 8 years, almost 9 (I think).
We look like scrubs babies.

2. How did you meet? {What's your "love" story?}
The first time we ever were introduced to each other was in the foyer (fancy) of the house he lived in in college.  As he tells it, he saw a "hot" girl and needed to meet her.  Nothing came of that first encounter until many months after, when we first (re)connected at a retreat through our college ministry group.  He made sure to join the card game that I was playing with some other people in hopes that we could chat, and sure enough, we clicked right away.
Our very picture ever taken together

3. If married, how long have you been married? If not, is this the guy you hope to marry? {do tell}
We have been married 5 years - it will be 6 this coming May.  Anniversary is Cinco de Mayo.  Ay yay yay.  :)

4. If you are married, where did you get married at? Big or small wedding?  If not, where would you like to get married? And will it be big or small?
We tested the Washington weather and got married OUTSIDE on May 5th on the most beautiful 75 degree day up at Snoqualmie Ridge Golf & Country Club.  It was so picture-esque, and so fun to be surrounded by 300 of our closest friends and friend.  There were a few more than just the invited 300 too - we noticed a few wedding crashers!

5. Do you have any nick-names that you call one another? Do share!
We're not huge nick-namers.  Mostly babe for both of us.  Sometimes I throw in dude.  And when we really get crazy, I call him Blake Jordan - I'm a big proponent of middle names being included. :)

6. Name 3 things you love most about your honey.
Narrowing it down to the 3 MOST seems silly, because I usually have a laundry list, BUT I do love:
How he makes up strength, personality, and character-wise what I lack.  We really are compliments to one another.  He's strategic.  Loyal (had some of the same best friends since 6th grade).  An expert at what he does.  Well-respected - not just by me, by those around him.  Smart.  I love being able to have intelligent conversations with me because he always teaches and makes me think.  Helpful.  Blake is not content sitting around and thus is always willing to help around the house - cooking, cleaning, with Brecken - you name it, he can play Mr. Mom with the best of 'em!
Is that 3?  :)

7. Tell us how he proposed? Or your ideal proposal?
He had me totally fooled, and through some sweet connections, managed to set up this whole spread on the 50 yard line of Husky Stadium (go dawgs).  A tent, rose petals everywhere, a personalized poem, and a blingin' ring! I was shocked to say the least!

8. Is he a flowers and teddy bear kind of guy for v-day, or strawberrieschampagne, and rose petals?
I think if he ever bought me a teddy bear, I'd probably laugh.  :)  He's more of a get-me-something-I-really-want kind of guy.  So depending on the season, maybe flowers, maybe a cute card, maybe a Lululemon jacket.  :)  Either way - he scores high in this department always.

9. Are you a sunset dinner on the beach kind of girl, or pop a movie in and relax on the couch?
Can I say both?  Movie in our sweats on the couch is the norm for this household (which I love!), but dinner on the beach sounds AMAZE-BALLS, and the Carbonatto's definitely love to escape to the sun.
That one time when we used to live 3 minutes from the beach.  :)
10. Tell us one thing you'd like to do with your significant one day. If you could do anything? Go anywhere?
I really want to go on a Mediterranean Cruise.  I really just want to go to the Mediterranean, but a cruise is probably the only way that I'd be able to convince him to cross the pond.  It's on our list.  It will happen someday.  Sans kids.

11. Tell us what you plan on doing on this Valentine's Day.
We have our new house orientation for 3 hours in the morning!!  Nighttime might consist of some takeout (a treat for me to not have to cook!), maybe bath-time for Brecken, and then cuddle.  The life of an 8 month preggo girl. :)

12. Are you asking for anything this Valentine's day?
Nah - we've got a new house to furnish!

13. Give us one piece of advice of keeping a relationship strong and full of love.
Grace. The more grace that we offer to one another, the deeper our love can grow.  We've learned so often that love is a choice in a marriage that hopes to endure all the peaks and valleys of life.  It isn't going to be a mountain-top feeling all of the time.  Live that.  Remember that.  And offer grace to each other.  Oh, and never stop dating each other!  Don't let it get stale.  Happens way too often, and way too fast - especially when kids get thrown into the mix.  Carbonatto's are HUGE proponents of regular and frequent date nights.

14.  Show us a picture of what love means to you.
Side by side.  Letting the waves of life crash on us.  We'll do it together.


  1. This is cute! I would probably laugh at Micah too if he brought me a teddy bear!

  2. so cute - I feel like I know and respect your love story oh so well. love you both so much!

  3. Aww.The two of you look cute together. Great love story! God bless the both of you in your lives together as husband and wife. :') I was really inspired after reading your post.


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